The Killing Just Goes On And On

I wasn’t going to post anything on the blog today. My heart was just too heavy after hearing of yet another mass shooting over the weekend, and I turned my attention to creative things that would lift my spirits. But then this letter from Beto O’Rourke popped up in my mailbox a few minutes ago and changed my mind.

It so clearly states some of my reactions, I wanted to share it. No matter your political leanings, the fact that something, ANYTHING, needs to be done to stop this, is beyond debate.

Here is Beto’s letter to constituents:

I called Amy last night after I’d learned about the murders in Midland and Odessa.

I said, “I don’t feel right.”

I know this happens all the time. In fact, this is the fourth massacre in Texas in under two years. And just last year alone there were 340 mass shootings in America. Amy and I were just talking about this same thing the night before because we’d both read news stories about a shooting at a high school football game in Mobile, Alabama.

In other words, this shouldn’t have come as a surprise. Because of our country’s deference to the gun lobby and the NRA at the expense of the lives of our fellow Americans — our unwillingness to pass background checks, red flag laws; our inability to stop selling weapons of war and our failure to buy those back that have already been sold… because of what we’ve accepted, our complicity in 100 gun deaths a day… because of all of this, logically, this was bound to happen.

So what made me feel so sick, so sad, so angry?

Maybe it was because it hadn’t even been a month since the last mass shooting in West Texas, when 22 people were killed at a Walmart in El Paso.

Maybe in the aftermath we all took some false comfort, like lightning couldn’t strike twice.

Because when it comes down to it, we look at these shootings like we would a lightning strike, a natural disaster, an act of God, something you couldn’t predict or plan for, couldn’t stop even if you wanted to. Just gotta take your chances and accept that it happens.

Like lightning, we think about how to protect ourselves despite the threat — bulletproof backpacks for our kids; active shooter drills in our schools; deciding what window you’re going to jump out of, which bookshelf you’ll pull down, how you’ll get your kid to safety or how you might have to shelter them by sacrificing your body and your life.

Now, *you* may not look at it that way… You may be the one organizing the march for our lives, the walkout from your school, the local Moms Demand chapter. But, *we*, we are all in this together, for good or for bad. For life or for death. And in a government of, by and for the people, we judge ourselves by whether we’ve changed this, or failed to change this.

And so far, we’ve absolutely failed to change this.

On that phone call last night, Amy said, “I don’t feel right, either.”

We feel sick for the families in Midland and Odessa. The parents who lost a child. The parents who are with their child in the intensive care unit in Lubbock. The families who are in shock and in mourning. The many friends we have there, who we called, who assured us they were okay — but shaken up. Just left the lockdown at the Target, or the Young Democrats meeting at the hotel, or wherever they were when the first reports of an active shooter came in.

We talked about how there is so much hatred and pain in this country right now. Anger and racism and a divide between us that seems to grow every day. Paralyzing. The sense of common purpose, an ability to focus on what we have to do together to save ourselves and one another, lost. How do we find our way back? I told her about a story I’d heard of London during the Nazi blitz (German for “lightning”) in 1940 and 1941, how in the face of indiscriminate terror and death a city and a nation united in common purpose and common cause. Londoners stopped focusing on their petty differences, their personal disappointments, their private despair — and did everything they could to save the lives of their fellow humans and to unite in confronting the Nazi menace.

How do we approach this menace of gun violence that kills 40,000 of us a year in the same way?

I read something Rabbi Michael Latz wrote this morning. He was responding to criticism that using profanity to describe this horror — the death toll in Midland and Odessa now stands at 7, including a 15-year old girl who attended Odessa high school, with 19 injured, among them a 17-month old child — and our complicity in it was wrong. To those concerned about calling a fucked up situation “fucked up,” he said:

“Profanity ain’t the F-bomb. Profanity is living in a country where a 17 MONTH OLD BABY IS SHOT IN THE FACE…”

He reminds us that we must see what is happening clearly, speak about it honestly and act decisively.

  1. When a victims fund is started up — donate. I’ll be sure to send a reminder.  The family of the 17 month old, Anderson Davis, has a GoFundMe. We know from our experience in El Paso that families will need help with medical bills, the cost of funerals, making up for lost income, and paying the rent. Do this.
  1. Call your federal representative in Congress and your U.S. Senator at (202) 224-3121. Let them know you want them fighting with all they’ve got for universal background checks, for red flag laws and an end to the sale of weapons of war.
  1. If you’re in Texas, call your state rep and state senator and let them know that the 10 laws that just went into effect today that LOOSEN instead of TIGHTEN restrictions on guns need to be repealed. No reason we should make it easier for people to bring guns near or into schools, churches, mosques, synagogues and foster care homes.
  1. Make sure you are registered to vote. Make sure your mom and little brother, your classmates, your colleagues, your neighbors, your friends on Facebook are all registered to vote. And then make sure each and every person in your life votes in every election going forward until we have leaders who represent our values and our lives.
  1. Join a Moms Demand or March for Our Lives chapter in your state.
  1. Don’t give up or give in. Keep up the faith and the pressure. Let’s change this now.

– Beto

7 thoughts on “The Killing Just Goes On And On”

  1. You are our brothers and sisters in the States and it just won’t ‘wash’ to say ‘How awful, but you have the right to bear arms in your constitution and we don’t in the UK.’ As you and Beto so eloquently say Maryann, this has to change. <3

    1. Thanks for the affirmation, Jane. Unfortunately, the actual wording of the “right to bear arms” has been viewed from different angles and interpreted differently depending on that angle. And what people don’t take into consideration today is that when our Constitution was written, nobody could know the kinds of “arms” would come along to wreak such havoc in mere seconds. It is all very scary, actually. And I am a gun owner and enthusiast. But I abhor those assault weapons.

      1. If the ‘right to bear arms’ is open to interpretation, then it is a complex issue and there are many individual perceptions on guns. You are absolutely right that in this day and age the sophistication of the assault weapons causes havoc in a split second. <3 Maryann <3

        1. The problem with interpretation is because seldom is the full amendment wordage used when talking about the “right to bear arms”:The Second Amendment of the United States Constitution reads: “A well regulated Militia, being necessary to the security of a free State, the right of the people to keep and bear Arms, shall not be infringed.”

          The NRA and other extremists on that side of the issue say that the amendment unilaterally supports guns for all and no limitations on types of guns. Other people, like the parents of children who have been shot in the school shootings, say that we should look at the other words in the amendment. Do we really need an Militia? What does “a well-regulated” Militia really mean? That people can indiscriminately buy all kinds of weapons?

          And most importantly for the current issues of gun violence in the States, can we continue to wrap ourselves in that Second Amendment while people continue to die at horrendous rates due to the proliferation of assault weapons?

          That has been my question for years.

  2. I’m glad that the full wording helped you understand the right to bear arms more fully. It is a really delicate subject here with lots of people on both sides. What I really dislike about the “sides” is the absolutes thrown out there. “IF we let them ban assault weapons, they’ll come after our sporting guns next.” Some of the most adamant gun owners can’t seem to see past their own personal interests. Nobody is promoting the idea of taking away everybody’s guns. Thanks for weighing in on the topic, Jane.

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