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A moving, surprisingly humorous, sometimes snarky novel about life, friendship... and cancer

Lara Blaine believes that she can hide from her past by clinging to a rigid routine of work and exercise. She endures her self-imposed isolation until a cancer diagnosis cracks her hard exterior. Lara’s journey through cancer treatment should be the worst year of her life. Instead, it is the year that she learns how to live. She befriends Jane, another cancer patient who teaches her how to be powerful even in the face of death. Accepting help from the people around her allows Lara to confront the past and discover that she is not alone in the world. With the support of her new friends, Lara gains the courage to love and embrace life. Like climbing the Eiffel Tower, the year Lara meets Jane is tough, painful, and totally worth it.

326 pages, Paperback

First published October 1, 2014

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Elizabeth Hein

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Elizabeth Hein writes women’s fiction with a bit of an edge. Her novels explore the role of friendship in the lives of adult women and themes of identity. How To Climb The Eiffel Tower follows one young woman as she navigates the world of cancer treatment with the help of her friends. Overlook and Escape Plan chronicle how a small group of women bands together to free themselves from terrible marriages and forge their own paths in life.

When she is not typing away on her own novels, Elizabeth guides new authors on their writing path.

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920 reviews1,436 followers
January 28, 2015
“You can see a person's whole life in the cancer they get.”
----Haruki Murakami, Blind Willow, Sleeping Woman

Elizabeth Hein, an American writer, who herself being a cancer survivor, crafts an edgy and inspiring contemporary story about fighting cancer and making new friends on the road to fighting cancer, in her new book, How to Climb the Eiffel Tower .

Synopsis:
Lara Blaine believes that she can hide from her past by clinging to a rigid routine of work and exercise. She endures her self-imposed isolation until a cancer diagnosis cracks her hard exterior. Lara’s journey through cancer treatment should be the worst year of her life. Instead, it is the year that she learns how to live. She befriends Jane, another cancer patient who teaches her how to be powerful even in the face of death. Accepting help from the people around her allows Lara to confront the past and discover that she is not alone in the world. With the support of her new friends, Lara gains the courage to love and embrace life. Like climbing the Eiffel Tower, the year Lara meets Jane is tough, painful, and totally worth it.

This is the story of Lara Blaine, who keeps herself isolated from her past demons (sexual abuse survivor) under the rigorous routine of work and exercise. Among her many exercise regime, one of them is "climbing the Eiffel Tower", since she is mortified to climb the actual tower. But soon, Lara is diagnosed with cervical cancer, and thus begins a new found journey to find herself, to trust someone, to overcome her fears and to make new friends like Jane, another cancer patient.

Footnote: This book is not at all sad and depressing compared to other cancer stories, instead this book is funny, light-hearted, layered with witty cynicism.

Firstly, being a fictional book, the accounts of a cancer patient like Lara are very much real and vivid, mostly because the author wrote it from her personal experience. But that doesn't make the book a wee bit of sad, moreover, the author addressed all the issues with enough sensitivity and compassion.

The characters are really striking, especially the protagonist, Lara who is strong and focused, but also lived a life in fear. She is a victim of sexual abuse from her step-father, though she managed to get away from the pain, but she lived in constant fear, by keeping herself away from the society, in short, she was suffering from trust issues. Moreover, when she wad diagnosed she was determined not to let anyone come and help her or even let anyone know about her illness. Jane happens to be the perfect companion on Lara's road to fighting cancer. Jane helps Lara to embrace her illness to fight her social issues, moreover, Jane's warmth makes Lara learn to trust once again. The author created this key character so beautifully that her sketch will remain etched onto our minds for a very long time. In fact, the Lee family sounds real and loving! Since the author have intricately crafted her characters thus slowing down the pace of the book, but that's not a bad thing, since it helped us to enrich our minds about the depth of the characters, especially Lara and her reasons to behave in such a strange way.

The narrative style of the author is light and clear and the prose is very free-flowing layered with funny antidotes and snarky comments, thus keeping us glued to the very heart of the story. It is not any thrilling story that will keep you on your edges, but Lara's journey on the road to not only fighting cancer but also rediscovering herself keeps us gripped till its very end.

All the accounts of Cancer are very much real and it is described with lots of love and patience and written in a way that will definitely bewitch our minds and hearts. I never though Cancer books can be this much witty and wonderful.

Verdict: A must read Cancer book that doesn't leave any tears on your eyes out of pain or sadness.

Courtesy: Thanks to the author, Elizabeth Hein, for providing me with a copy of her book, in return for an honest and unbiased review.
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1,459 reviews67 followers
July 19, 2014
When I first read the blurb for this book I had my reservations about it. I am a cancer survivor as well and I was really hoping that this book would not fluff up the experience. It doesn't and on top of that, it is just a genuinely well written and entertaining book. I later read the author bio and saw that the author is a cancer survivor as well, so I really felt like although this was fiction, she wrote it from a place of personal knowledge and that made it even better.

The things that the main character goes through in this story are written with sincerity and realistic qualities that make you feel close to her and her situation. She struggles to understand why the things that have occurred in her life have happened and comes to new understanding about herself throughout the course of the story.

This book will make you laugh, make you cry in places but also make you realise that no matter what adversity there is in life, there is a way to overcome it. The strong female characters in this book do not come off as abrasive or intentionally feminist. They represent real women with real lives.

I was impressed by the pace and flow of this novel as well as the way the author chose to end her story. If you enjoy women's fiction and like books that border the line between fiction and reality, this would be a good one to choose.

Recommended.

This review is based on a complimentary copy from the publisher and provided through Netgalley. All opinions are my own.
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Author 42 books545 followers
August 30, 2014
The author hooked me with the opening sentence: "Ellery Cancer Center protruded from the hospital's facade like a glass tumor."

This is how Lara Blaine, the central character, begins her journey through cancer treatment. That is challenge enough for any woman, but added to that is the emotional trauma she still carries from an abusive past. She has tried to hide from that past by maintaining a rigid routine of work and exercise, but this cancer thing throws that routine out the window. As the treatments make her sicker and sicker, she discovers that she cannot fight everything alone. For the first time in her life, she needs people and reluctantly allows one or two to come into her private life.

One of those friends is Jane, another cancer patient, and a wonderful character. It is Jane who helps Lara step away from the past and embrace herself as a strong, capable woman. I enjoyed getting to know Jane and Vanessa and Sebastian and all the other characters who touched Lara's life. They were all so well done, they came across as real people.

The book is listed as contemporary women's fiction, and it is an easy read, despite the heavy subject matter. There is just enough humor to lighten some moments, and Vanessa is one of those bright, happy friends anyone would want around to come over and brighten a day. All in all this is a wonderful story, very well-written, and it would be good for a book club discussion.
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2,896 reviews411 followers
November 28, 2014
A special thank you to Light Messages Publishing and NetGalley for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.

Check out my review on the How to Climb the Eiffel Tower's backcover and here

HOW TO CLIMB THE EIFFEL TOWER by Elizabeth Hein, is edgy, funny, and empowering as one strong woman tries to hide from her abusive past on her own, until a tragedy happens, and gains the courage to love and embrace life in an entirely new way.

Set in a small town of fictional Magnuson, the Piedmont area of NC, near Durham. Magnuson’s largest employers are the Ellery Medical Center and the financial services companies. Lara works as an analyst at one of the mineral investment firms.

Lara is a funny, smart and a complex young woman. She is independent and lives an isolated life, with no friends, guarding herself and her heart. She is a loner and demands a world of safety, haunted by her horrible abusive childhood. She has no family and buries herself in work, and her obsession with fitness at the gym, keeping a steady routine. She works in a cube at her office, is under-valued, with her boss taking all the credit for her work. (The work stuff is hilarious with her sarcasm and names for her co-workers and the gym scene, a riot!).

Lara Blaine believes, that she can hide, from her past by clinging to a rigid routine of work and exercise. She endures her self-imposed isolation until a cancer diagnosis cracks her hard exterior. Lara’s journey through cancer treatment should be the worst year of her life. Instead, it is the year that she learns how to live. She befriends Jane, (in her sixties), another cancer patient who teaches her how to be powerful even in the face of death. (Loved their relationship).

Accepting help from the people around her, allows Lara to confront the past and discover that she is not alone in the world. With the support of her new friends, Lara gains the courage to love and embrace life. Like climbing the Eiffel Tower, the year Lara meets Jane is tough, painful, and totally worth it all.

The relationship between Jane and Lara is priceless. Her newfound friendship with Vanessa (HR), and Sebastian, she meets at the race, and the dog— totally amazing! Lara’s goal in life is to have personal power. She wants to feel loved and learn how to love; however, she never knew how previously.

Climbing the Eiffel Tower begins with a setting on the gym equipment; however, later Jane shows Lara how she needs to climb the real Eiffel Tower in Paris and learn to live life and all it has to offer, by leaving the past behind and not allow it to control her.

What a great book! A moving novel of healing, redemption, raw emotion, overcoming adversity, with realistic lovable and flawed characters. I loved the strong women in this book—so impressed, as quite the page-turner and hard to put down. Elizabeth Hein has just made it to my favorite author list. She writes razor sharp, and do not think I have ever laughed so hard!

Fans of Jennifer Weiner, Sarah Pekkanen, and Amy Hatvany will devour HOW TO CLIMB THE EIFFEL TOWER. This book is for every woman, young or old. Whether you have an illness, cancer, a survivor, or are perfectly healthy, this book is for you – one of friendship, cancer, loss and love.

After reading HOW TO CLIMB THE EIFFEL TOWER, was so blown away, later spent some time reading about the author. I strongly urge you to get to know this special woman. After reading more, this makes me treasure the book even more. She sounds like someone you would want to be BFF with, to tell it like it is honestly; keeping you in stitches laughing.

Hats off to Elizabeth, for being a cancer survivor, mother, and talented writer and for giving this special gift to her readers with this incredible, and inspiring novel.

On a Personal Note: My mom received the diagnosis of colon cancer and secondary liver cancer the first of this year. She has been in and out of the hospital with other complications and is currently undergoing chemo. She is doing really well, and goes to the gym six days a week. She is an inspiration; however, this book helped me realize you do not always have to talk about the illness as sometimes you just want to have fun, escape for the afternoon, and do small things which make you happy. She so enjoys going to the Y and visiting with all her friends.

As Jane says, “Make sure you leave plenty of time to eat croissants, and drink lots of wine too, live the whole experience, not just the hard parts.”

Well Done, Very Deserving of a 5 Star++, and looking forward to reading more from this new-found talented author! PS Loved the cover and the titles of all the chapters – another special touch.

Judith D. Collins Must Read Books


About the Author (all the good authors wind up in NC!)
Elizabeth Hein is a mother, author, and cancer survivor. She grew up in Massachusetts and now lives in Durham, North Carolina. She writes women's fiction with a bit of a sharp edge. She is fascinated by how friendship and human connection can help a person through the most difficult moments in their lives. When not writing, she is trying to raise two young women and a husband. http://elizabethhein.com/
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606 reviews31 followers
September 30, 2014
This book is about a young, single woman who is diagnosed with cervical cancer. It's a novel, but feels like it could be a memoir.

I loved this book! As a breast cancer survivor myself, at first I wasn’t so sure about this book as it seemed a tad “weird.” But it is a novel and it’s about cervical cancer, which is totally different. And it’s about someone who is all alone at first, with no one to confide in and to tell about her diagnosis, and to take with her to her doctor’s visits. I felt so sorry for Lara going through this all alone, until she starts opening up to people and finds out that people do want to be her friend and help her. Her back story with her mother and step-father is horrible, and that explains why she is how she is. Lara turns out to be such a wonderful, caring person herself. I almost cried after her problems with radiation and she finally admitted to the nurse and doctor what her symptoms were so she could be helped. It was just so sad how she bore everything on her own, how she lived in her bare apartment, how she ate alone every night at the Chinese restaurant, how she went to the gym alone, how she worked alone at work taking no credit for doing all the work, how she fearfully locked herself in her apartment every night (triple locks, looking over her shoulder all the time), how she didn’t care how she looked, etc. etc. etc. But once she started opening up, making friends, etc., she “blossomed” and created a new life for herself, got a backbone, and just grew into this lovely person. Lara’s HR person turned into a good friend, her previous non-supportive co-workers (the two guys) eventually joined her new team and became valuable co-workers, the Chinese restaurant people became close friends and “healers,” her step-father, instead of being this scary monster, was really just a pathetic person, and Jane and her son became really good, close friends. I loved Jane and what a good friend she turned out to be. They were kindred spirits! I am so sad that Jane is terminal and won’t be around much longer. But she is the person who drew Lara out of her shell and shopped with her, and helped her grow so much. If Lara was real, I would so want to be her friend (and Jane’s too). She was brilliant, likeable, caring, and just a person I’d want to know! I hope she will be a long-time survivor.

**I received this book for free for Net Galley in exchange for an unbiased review.”
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19 reviews3 followers
August 28, 2014
When I saw that bestselling author Summer Kinard endorsed this book, I knew I had to read it. First because I've had a few set backs recently that required the rallying help of my closest friends, but also because the plot centers around the amazing bond that only girlfriends can give each other in the hardest times of our lives and the most joyous! And sometimes you meet friends in the most unexpected places, like Dunkin Donuts, or in main character Lara's case, in the waiting room of her oncologist's office right before receiving the news she has cancer.

I was hooked with this book from the very first chapter. Author Elizabeth Hein wrote a humorous, page turning novel about the power of friendships in unconventional situations ... Hein connects readers to Lara Blaine as she hides from her past by clinging to a tiresome routine of work and exercise leaving no time for friendships, dating, or even Cancer when it crosses her path. Quietly enduring her self-imposed rigid lifestyle and personal isolation, Lara’s journey through cancer treatment should have been the worst year of her life. Instead, it is the year Lara learns to trust others, share pieces of herself, and really embrace her life.

Each page drew me in deeper into Lara's life as she befriended Jane, another cancer patient, who teaches Lara how to be powerful even in the face of death. Lara goes through phases of amazement and healing as she learns to accept help from people around her. To Lara’s surprise, a circle of women band together to support her while she deals with her own demons.

I won't tell you the middle or the ending, just to say this is a book I will recommend to and buy for my girlfriends ... you know, the ones that have stayed the course through thick and thin. The ones you can call at 2 am just to lament over a bad date or complain about work, the kids, the sofa the dog ate ... and yes, even cancer.

I loved this book and hope to read more from this author.
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604 reviews243 followers
October 1, 2014
Wow, this one turned out to be a read and a half, which grabbed me right from the start.

Lara is 29 and leads a very solitary life. She is dedicated to her job despite having not only the boss but also the colleagues from hell. She goes from work every night to a gruelling exercise regime, specifically so that she can sleep without the nightmares that haunt her, reminding her of dark events in her past. Her life is about to change forever though when she is diagnosed with cervical cancer.

This is her story over the next year, from the initial diagnosis through each round of treatment and as the story progresses we watch her slowly starting to reach out and connect with people. There are some wonderful characters, especially Jane the fellow cancer patient she befriends and Vanessa the bolshy, lively HR officer at her works. Jane and Vanessa in particular are key to Lara moving forward and, despite what she is going through, blossoming into the woman she becomes at the end of the book.

Despite the subject matter and although there are some very moving moments in the book it has a very positive, uplifting feel to it as we watch Lara become empowered throughout the story. With the help of her new friends she finds the courage to face up to her cancer as well as being able to confront the demons from her past.

It is a very easy to read book that really does flow well with characters who feel real. Once I started it I didn’t want to put it down. Highly recommended read. Many thanks to the publishers for the review copy.
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Author 7 books40 followers
September 29, 2014
Although Elizabeth Hein's newest book is fiction, the story, characters, and places are as real as if I were looking through a window and watching this story line play out.

Hein had me with her first sentence: "Ellery Cancer Center protruded from the hospital's facade like a glass tumor." However, little did I know what the back story and underlying theme would be so I moved on slowly wondering just what import there was in climbing the Eiffel Tower.

Once I met Lara and learned of her difficult, no a better word is horrific, background I wanted to put my arms around her for comfort and healing. I too grew up in a difficult background and her emotional response was not new to me. I wanted more for her. I wanted to know her deeply. And Hein gave me that opportunity.

Lara is surrounded by a strange group of co-workers and friends, until she meets Jane. Older than Lara, the two soon become the salve to soothe the other's wounds. I cherished this image of stepping in where someone is needed and coincidentally finding something you needed but didn't realize.

Hein is to be congratulated on telling a story of strength, courage, support, and yes, survival in How to Climb the Eiffel Tower. I encourage anyone who has ever heard, had, or survived the "C" word to read Lara's story.

NOTE: I received a copy of this book from the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. Opinions expressed are solely mine.
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1 review
June 14, 2014
I love this book because it is real. The characters and plot are completely original which makes it interesting to read. It teaches you that everything has a meaning and happens for a reason while giving an ultimately positive view on something so terrible such as cancer. I would definitely recommend this book to anyone who loves a story that feels "true" and isn't sugar-coated and that can put your life in a new perspective.
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3,507 reviews
October 1, 2014
4.5 stars.

How to Climb the Eiffel Tower is a genuine portrayal of what it is like to have cancer. Elizabeth Hein does not downplay the physical or emotional aspects that result from such a life-altering diagnosis. While parts of the novel are heartbreaking, it is not bleak or depressing. Instead it is an uplifting story of friendship and healing for main character Lara Blaine as she triumphs over not only cancer but her traumatic past as well.

In the beginning, Lara is not an easy character to like or relate to. She is super smart and extremely dedicated to her job, but she is very disconnected from her co-workers. She leads a rather lonely life and she adheres to a strict schedule in an effort to keep her memories at bay. Her cancer diagnosis is shocking but Lara has no intention of letting her treatments interfere with her life or job. And at first, she is able to do just that but then she is hit hard by the side effects of her treatments and the toughest journey of her life begins when she is forced to accept help from the people around her.

One of the first people Lara befriends is Jane, an older woman who has also been diagnosed with cancer. She and Jane provide one another with emotional support and friendship as they battle their diseases. As Lara shares her burdens with Jane, she begins to heal from her abusive past.

The next person Lara unexpectedly lets into her life is Vanessa Klaitner, and this is the relationship that proves most beneficial both personally and professionally. Vanessa is the HR rep at the firm Lara works for, and with Vanessa's assistance, Lara finally gets the professional recognition she deserves. Vanessa's friendship is absolutely priceless and she is the person everyone needs at their side during a crisis. Vanessa steamrolls over Lara's objections and inserts herself smack dab in the middle of her life which is just what Lara needs.

Lara's transformation into a likable and sympathetic character is slow, but believable. As she begins to let people into her life, her rough edges begin to soften and her caring, compassionate side begins to fully emerge. Lara is still slow to trust but she does not hesitate to accept friendship when it is offered and by the novel's end, she begins to open herself to the possibilities of love.

How to Climb the Eiffel Tower by Elizabeth Hein is a hopeful, poignant and inspiring novel. Despite the serious subject matter, it is a story that focuses on the positive while providing a realistic representation of a cancer diagnosis. It is an overall engrossing and thought-provoking novel of friendship that I highly recommend.
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72 reviews6 followers
July 25, 2014
How to Climb the Eiffel Tower follows the motivational story of a young woman, Lara Blaine who has -wait for it- cancer. Diagnosed with cervical cancer, Lara Blaine slowly learns how to accept it and carry on with her life. Lara went from being a woman who is only living on the sidelines because of her dark past that she desperately fled from to transform into someone who she wouldn't have become had she not gotten cancer. Instead of being taken down by cancer, Lara finds herself going through a transformation that makes her have a better view on life. Throughout her cancer treatment, Lara learns a lot about friendship and getting a better grip on her own life.

The pace of this book was slow but steady. Although I wouldn't go so far as to say that this book was gripping and intriguing, I felt compelled to finish it because I wanted to see how it all worked out for Lara. Elizabeth Hein writes in a way that isn't fast-paced yet you will want to keep cheering on for Lara.

The characters in this story are enjoyable and fun. The character development in this story is not flimsily thrown around. The characters have standard character traits but are significant as the story plays out. I did shed a few precious tears at the end of the story as the characters had sort of grown on me.

Although this story is not one that would stand out, I don't think that any elements of the book should change. It is a story that wraps up well. I like how the story wraps up and I enjoyed Lara's journey as she undergoes treatment for her cancer. This is a book that stands its own ground.

And just one more thing? To those who've read John Green's books (and you know which one I'm talking about), please do not compare this book to his (or any cancer book in that matter). You can learn something special from reading both books. How to Climb the Eiffel Tower offers something much more different -it approaches cancer and surviving it in its individual way, and you can learn a lot of things from reading the book.

All in all, I can say that it was a heartfelt and motivational book. I would recommend it for readers who want to have a better take at life and would like some inspiration or motivation.

My rating for this book: 3.5 - 4 stars

A galley of How to Climb the Eiffel Tower was kindly provided by the author via NetGalley at my request to review her book. This review is written in my honest opinion and uninfluenced by anyone.
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122 reviews17 followers
December 31, 2014
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I received a copy of How to Climb the Eiffel Tower by Elizabeth Hein in exchange for an honest review.

Lara Blaine has lived in self imposed isolation in an attempt to hide from her past and her life very much revolves around a regimen of work and exercise.  Then one day a diagnosis changes everything.  She meets Jane at treatment and they form a tight bond, something the past Lara would never allow.  Through the friendship Jane gives Lara the support and courage to face the demons from her past that haunt her steps.  This book gives a very graphic account of the disease that is Cancer and the treatments that the survivors endure, to in the end, survive or not survive their fight to stay alive.  Heart-wrenching in its account of the courage and fear of the victims, their families and friends and we must all never overlook what it takes to survive or just simply endure.  Sad, but nevertheless, an awesome book!

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161 reviews7 followers
August 31, 2014
This book presents us with the real life experience of what it is like to have cancer. The main character, Lara has cervical cancer. She meets and makes friends with a woman who has lung cancer. Later in the story she meets a man who has had bone cancer. These are some very heavy topics, but the tone is one of empowerment and living well. The characters show growth and strength as they deal with their health issues.

I found this book to be very realistic and accurate in both what the characters go through physically and emotionally. I was concerned that I would find problems with the book from a medical view-point. When I read it, I thought wow she really seems to know how it feels and what people go through when they deal with cancer. I then looked at her profile and found that she is a survivor and the book shows this. I liked the main character from the start and was pulling for her throughout the novel.

This book was a short and quick read for me. I think that it would be great for book clubs for discussion. It would also be helpful for families and patients newly diagnosed with cancer. This book helps you to understand what others may be going through in life and what their struggles are. It reminds you to be grateful that you are blessed with good health and the ability to help others less fortunate. This is a book that really makes you think about how just living for some people is a struggle. I give this book 4 out of 5 stars.

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Author 3 books51 followers
September 24, 2014
With a horrific past that left her bitter, closed off, and emotionally crippled, it is with the startling diagnosis of cancer that Lara truly begins to heal.

I found the first half rather slow and slightly difficult to remain engaged with, but that’s most likely due to Lara’s prickly personality. Truth be told, she was supposed to be prickly and I believe I was supposed to slowly grow to love her, which I did. By the second half, Lara’s icy exterior began to thaw as she opened up to the love around her and it became a much more pleasant reading experience. In the final scenes, I felt that I was there beside her, holding her hand, wanting to help her climb above all the pain. I give Hein tremendous kudos for a fantastic job at transforming her main character from a hide-in-your-shell turtle to a live and laugh and love butterfly.

Though I enjoyed it and recommend it, there were a few times when I was pulled out of the story, most commonly when Lara repeatedly said oh my god. It got a bit old and it wasn’t necessary.

Overall, a well written novel about friendship, love, courage, and cancer.
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Author 22 books43 followers
October 1, 2014
In this empowering novel, redemption comes in flawed packages. With her passion for great books and unsentimental yet compassionate acceptance of the people in her life, Lara brings us into the midst of healing from trauma without toying with our emotions. A colorful and earthy cast of friends stick with Lara as she struggles to heal her body, revise her habits, and redirect the story of her life.

This is such a great book- wisdom without overt religion, for anyone who likes a good read with a redemptive ending. I couldn't put this book down! I love the wisdom and kindness in the story, and I like that it reaches out to people without pressing a particular lifestyle agenda. Also fond of all the colors and tea, of course! This book is a good one for reading at the gym, in hospital waiting rooms, and cafés and tea shops. It's so accessible that you won't feel awkward recommending it to people in all parts of your life.

Besides a general audience, I also think this book will be of special interest to women who had narcissistic mothers. It's such a redemptive book, and it could help a lot of people who were similarly hurt to sort through their wounds and find healing.
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Author 2 books16 followers
December 8, 2014
An uplifting, enjoyable read.
Lara Is 29 and lives a solitary, friendless life, working, going to the gym and eating takeout every night. Then she is diagnosed with cervical cancer and her life is changed, but in surprisingly positive ways.
This book is harrowing at times, as Lara’s background story is revealed and the reasons for her fear of people become clear. But watching her finally make friends and finally live is really rewarding and a pleasure to read.
Her relationship with Jane is a stand out of the story and the kindness of Vanessa is heart-warming. But this book isn’t soppy or sentimental; neither is it preachy. It is simply a tale of a lost, lonely girl who learns to live when confronted by her mortality.
I didn’t particularly enjoy the recounting of Lara’s dreams, although I can see why they are included. This was my only issue with the book. Aside from this, this is definitely worth a read and I recommend it.
Four out of five stars.
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5 reviews2 followers
October 15, 2014
I enjoyed this heartfelt story of a young woman who, while battling cervical cancer, conquered her demons and transformed her life. At the beginning of the book the young woman, Lara, has little self worth, is introverted, avoids relationships and is haunted by demons of her abusive childhood. She feels defeated by her cancer and believes she got cancer because she was being punished for something. However, as she struggles with the day to day knowledge that she has cancer and begins treatment, Lara begins a journey of discovery about herself and those around her. A heart warming story of a woman's journey of empowerment.
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October 6, 2014
This is a very beautifully written novel about healing in many senses of the word. I cared about Lara, and found that the story depicts a journey toward rediscovering self-worth through unexpected friends that emerge just at the moment you believe you’re alone. I loved Hein’s vivid imagery and rich metaphors, and the literary allusions were a delightful part of this read. The suspenseful subplot also makes this an engaging and absorbing read from start to finish. I definitely recommend this novel.
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1,908 reviews7 followers
December 25, 2014
For the first few chapters I wasn't sure a book with cancer and abuse would be my first choice summer read. But Lara's evolution from a victim to a strong woman, Caring about others was inspiring. Lonely and damaged, Lara pursued success at work at the expense of friends and a real life. The Eiffel Tower was a goal on an indoor bike, not real. As Lara goes through an awakening, the reader is absorbed with her story. Great read.
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542 reviews17 followers
October 8, 2014
Official book blurb: Lara Blaine believes that she can hide from her past by clinging to a rigid routine of work and exercise. She endures her self-imposed isolation until a cancer diagnosis cracks her hard exterior. Lara’s journey through cancer treatment should be the worst year of her life. Instead, it is the year that she learns how to live. She befriends Jane, another cancer patient who teaches her how to be powerful even in the face of death. Accepting help from the people around her allows Lara to confront the past and discover that she is not alone in the world. With the support of her new friends, Lara gains the courage to love and embrace life. Like climbing the Eiffel Tower, the year Lara meets Jane is tough, painful, and totally worth it.

My Thoughts: This was an appropriate month (National Cancer Awareness Month) to release this lovely and emotional story. Elizabeth Hein herself has had the unfortunate experience of having cancer. As a writer and storyteller she was able to capture in writing the fear, terror and pain that comes to bear on the individual, their family and friends. I have never known personally someone who was going through cancer treatment, so this book was also very informative to me without taking from the story itself.

Lara had been sexually abused for years by her step-father. She had run away from him and had started a new life for herself. Even with her legally changed name, she continued to look over her shoulder. She lived in an apartment complex very scantily furnished, with a duffle bag packed and ready to run if her step-father ever found her. Lara Blaine lived her life in fear.

She spent most of her life either at work or at the gym. In both areas she excelled. Lara was very smart and had a knack in market analysis. While she excelled in her work, her boss took all the credit. Lara didn’t mind, she wasn’t looking to be promoted and her boss would share the bonus she was rewarded. She’d go to the gym to work out strenuously and hoped this would help her with the nightmares she had almost every night.

Lara didn’t want to have to rely on anyone. She was a woman, with very little self-worth, who just wanted to blend into the background. She also had difficulty being touched by someone because of her past. She dare not trust anyone with her secrets. She knew they would blame her for what happened to her and avoid her even more.

Then Lara and Jane met at the hospital. They were two very lonely women, battling cancer without friends or family. Jane had lung cancer and Lara had cervical cancer. They both struggle with the reality of it, however the relationship between the two women is very supportive. Lara had never had a friend and didn’t know how to be one, but with Jane’s warm and caring nature, a friendship blossomed that gave them both comfort.

We get to know Lara at work, her life there and how her treatments affect her work. Lara didn’t want her boss to know she had cancer so she continued working even when she should have been resting at home. When her boss saw her sleeping at her desk, she thought she was on drugs and reported it to human resources.

I found myself cheering when Lara received solace and kindness where least expected. This was difficult for her to understand why they should be so nice. She, responding positively, found she had friends after all.

By the end of the story Lara no longer defines herself by tormented childhood memories and the harshness of having cancer. She found help with her new-found friends and in turn learned how to reach out to others in need.

Elizabeth Hein wrote a very moving, suspenseful story with a message loud and clear. People who are diagnosed with cancer or are struggling with other difficulties in their lives need family and friends. They are the people who help them get through the terrible ordeal. I recommend this read for readers who love inspirational reads or who might wish to understand better what a cancer patient deals with.
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1,379 reviews
October 9, 2014
I finished this book in two days because I literally couldn’t put it down. I’ve never read any books about cancer before but I ended up falling in love with the characters, and wanting to stay in their world, despite its flaws.

The character of Lara Blaine was so well-crafted. She was so serious and focused due to the damage of her childhood that it almost seemed as if she has Asperger’s. Before cancer shook up her world and forced her to see things differently, Lara had been given no reason to trust people in her life. As a reader seeing things through her eyes, we had no reason to trust them either. As Lara experiences growth, we grow with her and learn to trust some of the people who come into her life. And there were some great characters! I fell in love with the Lee family, Vanessa, Sebastian, Jane, Tom, and even the nurse Rosario. There were a lot of characters to keep track of, but they were introduced to skillfully, and flushed out so masterfully, that I was never confused about who was who.

I like how well-researched this book clearly is. The scenes at the hospital are peppered with technical terms, but I didn’t feel bogged down in terminology. I imagine that someone dealing with these kind of cancer treatments would find this book very comforting.

The ending wasn’t too neat. This book took place in a very real world and there were still plenty of unknowns. It was happy, yet believable. I can’t wait for this author’s next book!
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Author 9 books52 followers
November 23, 2014
It's hard to say I enjoyed a novel that deals with the topic of cancer, and yet I did. The main character is apparently one of the lucky ones as far as that disease goes and so, although there is at least one character in the novel who clearly won't make it, the general tone is positive.

The other issue dealt with in this novel is social anxiety. It's not named in the novel, but I read on the author's blog that the main character has social anxiety, and this is why I was keen to get hold of it (although I had some trouble doing so). When I finished reading, I thought hard about the way social anxiety is treated. Lara doesn't show any signs of anxiety. She keeps her distance from people, but she doesn't show any fear of those she is forced to come into contact with. This is neither my experience nor that of anyone I have known, but such behaviour must exist and would come into the category of social anxiety. She also manages to change her reclusive behaviour fairly easily, but this, too, seems possible given her lack of anxiety.

So I would say this story is plausible, as well as being well-written. It's certainly well worth a read.
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Author 14 books21 followers
October 1, 2014
This is one of those books you find yourself thinking about long after you've finished reading it. I have fallen in love with this novel and its characters. The friendship between Jane and Lara is one for the ages. We all need friends like these. And thanks to Hein's genuine writing style, we have them. The subject matter of this novel had the potential to create a dark book, but Hein uses humor, snark, and little prickliness to poke holes in the darkness and flood her readers with light. This novel stands tall in its beauty, authenticity, and wisdom.
774 reviews4 followers
November 9, 2014
I really enjoyed this book. The main character, Lara, is rather prickly and not terribly likeable, but over the course of the story and her development as a person, I became really attached to her. Many of the people she meets during her experience of having cancer and her whole life changing for the better are wonderful. The book has funny moments, and touching ones. Despite the cancer theme, it was not really a sad story, but a couple of times I was surprised to realize that I had tears in my eyes. I would like to know many of the characters much better.
Highly recommended!
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2,490 reviews11 followers
September 30, 2014
While it may seem odd to describe a book about cancer as "light", How to Climb the Eiffel Tower remains about as light as a book featuring a main character who is both a cancer patient and survivor of abuse can be. Despite its potentially grim premise, the story does more to highlight one young woman's awakening to her life as she deals with a cancer diagnosis and treatment, and along the way finds support and friendship. E-galley provided by NetGalley.
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1,339 reviews21 followers
February 18, 2016
I chose to read How to Climb the Eiffel Tower because I am currently running a French February theme on my book review site. I can admit that I didn’t actually read the blurb of the book and that I just saw the Eiffel Tower on the cover and being the Francophile that I am I requested it straight away on NetGalley. Normally, I would scold myself for being so laissez-faire with my NetGalley book requests and not actually researching the book beforehand but How to Climb the Eiffel Tower was one of those serendipitous requests: as it turned out I really enjoyed the book.

The story focuses on Lara: a young woman with a bucket load of issues. The narrative tracks her diagnosis with cervical cancer and subsequently how she deals with her illness. Cancer is such a sensitive subject and no two people experience it in the same way and the way the character that Lara Blaine tries to deal with it is pretty intense. It is harsh, it is raw and it is a little heart-warming. I cannot claim to know what a cancer patient goes through but as someone who has a chronic condition, I do know that trying to handle something that you have no control over is frightening, frustrating and downright lonely. These are the emotions that you get from Lara.

Whilst the title How to Climb the Eiffel Tower is somewhat misleading, I am happy that I stumbled on this little gem of a book. This is definitely one of those books that will leave a lasting impression.

How to Climb the Eiffel Tower by Elizabeth Hein is available now.

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87 reviews10 followers
July 27, 2015
This book really struck a chord with me, and it's not because I have cancer. Lara gets a cancer diagnosis and reacts to the news like a "normal" person, with "normal" feelings. She does all that she can to excel at her job and she has a routine and a past - a pretty dark past. But in the year she deals with her cancer diagnosis, she learns more about herself than she ever has before. I love this book in that it really shows you that it's what you make of a situation that shows your true character. Instead of wallowing in self-pity, you have FREE WILL to decide to rise up against the circumstances and learn from it, truly living life in its every day. This was a truly amazing read. Although it started off rather slowly, it really picked up pace and then I couldn't put it down.
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618 reviews13 followers
July 23, 2015
I love how this book covers two themes: the fear that goes into the diagnosis and treatment of cancer and the long-lasting scars left by adverse childhood events. The author seamlessly weaves the two, so not only does the reader experience a first-hand account of the protagonist's cancer journey, we also get to see her finally face her childhood demons. Up until her cancer diagnosis, Lara Blaine has walled herself off from others as a way to survive her childhood trauma, but once she becomes ill, she finds the me-against-the-world approach no longer possible. The cast of characters who join her on her journey are every bit as memorable as Lara. A well-written, enjoyable read with depth and heart.
12 reviews19 followers
May 18, 2015
I couldn't put this down. Lara's life drew me inside; I had to find out what happened next! Her journey and her transformation from sad, lonely, abused girl to strong confident survivor was beautiful. I'm definitely looking forward to reading more from Elizabeth Hein!
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40 reviews
July 2, 2016
She lived in black and white until she was diagnosed with cancer, she then started living her life in color! A well written novel about the power of friendship and learning it's never too late to embrace life and love.
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